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Are We The Problem? Victoria Monét Says Dating Women Is Harder Than Dating Men: ‘Girls Do Me Dirty’

By Victoria Uwumarogie May 8, 2026 1 min read

Singer Victoria Monét has shared her thoughts on dating in a recent podcast appearance. She discussed her experiences with both men and women, offering a candid perspective on her relationships. Monét's comments suggest that she has found dating women to be more challenging than dating men. Further details about her thoughts and experiences can be found in the full interview. The singer's appearance on the Angie Martinez podcast IRL has sparked interest in her personal life and relationships. For more information on Monét's comments and insights, readers can refer to the original source.

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